Respectful & Polite (The Salaam)
You cannot go wrong with good manners. Start with a greeting and a genuine question.
"Salaam [Name]. I read your profile and really appreciated your honesty about [Topic]. How has your week been?"
Why it worksStandard, polite, and safe.RatingStrength: High"Salaam. I noticed we have a few hobbies in common (like [Hobby]). How long have you been doing that?"
Why it worksConnects on shared interests.RatingStrength: Medium"Salaam! Your travel photos are amazing. Which country was your favorite visiting?"
Why it worksClassic conversation starter.RatingStrength: Medium"Salaam. I see you are also in [Field/Career]. It is rare to find someone who understands the grind!"
Why it worksProfessional bonding.RatingStrength: Medium"Salaam [Name]. Simple question to start: what is the highlight of your week so far?"
Why it worksPositivity focus.RatingStrength: Medium"Salaam. I liked your bio. especially the part about [Quote]."
Why it worksShows you read it.RatingStrength: High"Salaam! I see you are a foodie. Any recommendations for the best halal [Food] in town?"
Why it worksUseful and low pressure.RatingStrength: High"Salaam. You seem like a very family-oriented person. That is a great quality."
Why it worksComplimenting character.RatingStrength: High"Salaam. I hope you are having a blessed day. I wanted to reach out because your profile really stood out to me."
Why it worksFormal and sincere.RatingStrength: Medium"Salaam! Quick question: Tea or Coffee? (There is a right answer)."
Why it worksLighthearted icebreaker.RatingStrength: Medium