Topic-Based (Interests)
Leverage their specific Interest tags/badges. It instantly proves you have common ground.
"I see you are into [Interest]. I have always wanted to try that. How did you get started?"
Why it worksCuriosity + Flattery.RatingStrength: High"Fellow [Interest] fan here! What is your hot take on [Controversial aspect of Interest]?"
Why it worksInstant insider bonding.RatingStrength: High"I noticed you love to cook. What is the one dish you could eat for the rest of your life?"
Why it worksUniversal foodie appeal.RatingStrength: Medium"You listed 'Hiking' as a top interest. What is the best trail you have ever been on?"
Why it worksSpecific recommendation request.RatingStrength: Medium"I see you are a reader. What is the last book that kept you up way too late?"
Why it worksIntellectual connection.RatingStrength: Medium"I noticed your 'Travel' badge. If you had a plane ticket to anywhere right now, where are you going?"
Why it worksFun hypothetical.RatingStrength: Medium"You mentioned you are a dog person. What breed makes the best sidekick?"
Why it worksEasy safe topic.RatingStrength: Medium"I see we both like [Band/Music]. Have you ever seen them live?"
Why it worksShared experience.RatingStrength: Medium"You are into photography? Your shots are great. What camera do you shoot with?"
Why it worksTechnical compliment.RatingStrength: Medium"I see you play [Sport]. I played in college! Do you still play competitively?"
Why it worksInstant bonding.RatingStrength: High